Now what i remember when i was one year old. Ah.....ah......ah.....ah...ah..... ok thats it i really cant remember anything of first year of my life..... basssssshhhhhhhhh.
This blog am writing for my satisfaction, so nothing to bluff around.
I cant remember anything but i do remember what my Dad said about his experience when i was born to one year of age.
My dad was born is a small village near a town, he was raised along with poverty at home, so very difficult to even get one time meal. Shocking ah... but thats the truth ! Being born with four sisters and one brother so they were a total of 6 siblings altogether.
The family found it very difficult to get all the females to get married. But my grandfather was a very selfrespected man who never borrowed money from others, somehow they did get all the girls married. He also made sure that both his sons had sufficient education to face this real world. My dad was a post graduate in Arts.
With much frustration in his life he had to see his fathers death when he was pursuing his masters degree, after a year i.e., in 1981 he got married to his sister's daughter. (Its practised in the region which am living- so this marriage is valid and considered)
After Four years in 1985 i was born to him, and am the first daughter to my dad. During this time my dad told me that he was away from village and working as a lecturer in nearby city. He was a rank student so finding job was not that difficult to him i guess.
He told to his Sister to KILL ME, KILL THE GIRL CHILD.
He was so much all lost in his life being raised along with his four sisters that he never wanted girls around him anymore, no girl child atleast. But thats a FATHERS HEART.
After three days of my birth, when he arrived to see me, immediately his sister asked my father "SO, SHALL I KILL HER NOW", and held her hands on my neck, jokingly.
Immediately my father shouted NO NO and grabbed me in his arms, thats the first touch i would have ever felt of my dads. Tears filled in his eyes, just gazing at me, showered all his LOVE on me from then until now and forever.
Okies am cherishing this moment now, will be back soon. Take care.
This blog am writing for my satisfaction, so nothing to bluff around.
I cant remember anything but i do remember what my Dad said about his experience when i was born to one year of age.
My dad was born is a small village near a town, he was raised along with poverty at home, so very difficult to even get one time meal. Shocking ah... but thats the truth ! Being born with four sisters and one brother so they were a total of 6 siblings altogether.
The family found it very difficult to get all the females to get married. But my grandfather was a very selfrespected man who never borrowed money from others, somehow they did get all the girls married. He also made sure that both his sons had sufficient education to face this real world. My dad was a post graduate in Arts.
With much frustration in his life he had to see his fathers death when he was pursuing his masters degree, after a year i.e., in 1981 he got married to his sister's daughter. (Its practised in the region which am living- so this marriage is valid and considered)
After Four years in 1985 i was born to him, and am the first daughter to my dad. During this time my dad told me that he was away from village and working as a lecturer in nearby city. He was a rank student so finding job was not that difficult to him i guess.
He told to his Sister to KILL ME, KILL THE GIRL CHILD.
He was so much all lost in his life being raised along with his four sisters that he never wanted girls around him anymore, no girl child atleast. But thats a FATHERS HEART.
After three days of my birth, when he arrived to see me, immediately his sister asked my father "SO, SHALL I KILL HER NOW", and held her hands on my neck, jokingly.
Immediately my father shouted NO NO and grabbed me in his arms, thats the first touch i would have ever felt of my dads. Tears filled in his eyes, just gazing at me, showered all his LOVE on me from then until now and forever.
Okies am cherishing this moment now, will be back soon. Take care.
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